Addiction to thinking

Randall asked for my help, because he's been stuck with them and had no idea how to get from his misery. In his life he had moments of joy and a sense of uniqueness of life, but those moments are rare. Want more of these moments, but had no idea guess.

Randall is a very smart man, but to some extent, he used his own intelligence against himself. The problem was that when Randall whether these short connection real moments immediately to their country in mind, to try to understand how this happened. When wherever I went to his mind, it lost the connection it striking desired.

Randall went on her mind was, provided that he wanted to enjoy deep spiritual connection, he wanted something even more so-control through this connection. Randall wounded ego, he believed the self control connection with the spirit of his creations-if only he could understand it, and then he could control. The last thing to do is Randall, what do I need to connect with the spirit, is transfers his thoughts. Randall was deeply dependent thought as a means to feel it's internal experience. Thought was how to control their painful feelings, as his solitude, solitude and there for others and his spiritual connection.

Well we are addicted to thinking. We believe that if we can only things we can control others and results. We want to control how people feel about and we can respond by saying simply the right thing-We must reflect on several occasions to discover the right thing to say. This is called "chewing gum." Chewing is obsessively thinking about something more in the hope of finally come with answers "Right" the right thing to say, a right to control other people, and things. Chewing tobacco is also a way to control our own painful feelings, which is to make all information.

In my work with it would immediately go Randall on his head and analyze feelings was going on in minute session is goings. I would take him from his head and his body in your feelings. His feelings are so terrible to him that he could only stay with her feelings for a while before he was in his head-explaining calculate intellectualizing. Was so terrified solitude soul and solitude, he believed that he had learned to avoid these feelings of his mind. Yet until Randall was willing to feel painful feelings, who was since childhood, he could not stay with his head. Also that his intention was to control the pain instead of draw, he will be able to move them to the spiritual connection that he wanted to.

The aim of our hit are avoiding pain, especially deep soul solitude that many in this society. The problem is that our feelings, disconnection is our inner child-creates solitude. Leaves our automatic, our children feel alone on the inside, no one to help painful feelings. It is only when our wish to learn how we can give our own painful feelings, which open to our internal experience. Our desire to learn also opens the door to our spiritual connection, which we feel may, when our intention is to avoid the pain of our different dependencies.

It took several months to Randall prepare to feel painful feelings, but discovered that when he finally courage to feel them, it was not too bad he thought. In fact, it was already break his inner child by going to its addictive, thinking is more experienced only in part. Connection with the same allows to connect with the spirit of more timely. Instead, how to get there through thinking and trying to control, he's been getting it by current at the time of its inner experience-give up at this time. Randall said that although he could not control other and results, he in fact control his misery-choice wish to learn more, than protection against pain. Although to be able to control the mind, he checks his own intention which led to its power to connect with spirit.