Thursday, September 16, 2010

7 Steps to break (or make) A habit

We all have habits, some good and some not so good. The behaviors that we learned that and occur almost automatically. And most of us have a habit that would we break or one we want to develop.

For most people, it takes approximately four weeks for a new routine or custom behavior. The following steps make it easier to establish a new pattern.

1. The first step is your goal setting. Especially if you try to stop or to break a habit you should try to formulate your goal as a positive statement. Instead, for example, say, "I exits, snacking at night", say "I'll practice healthy eating habits". You should also record your goal. It helps Commiting to commit you to paper. It can also help if you, say your goal to someone you trust.

2. Opt for a replacement behavior. (If it aims, to develop a new habit your replacement will be then behavior goal itself.) This step is very important when trying to break a habit. If you want to stop a behavior, you need a superior behavior to put in its place. If you don't, the old patterns of behavior will return.

3. Learn and notice your triggers. Patterns are not independently exist. Often associated with a different part of your regular routine is a habit. In the nibble example can trigger such as late at night television or be read. You grab a bag chips automatically while you watch. Many people automatically smoking lights after eating. Consider when and why you do you want to terminate.

4. Post reminders for yourself. You can do this, by leaving notes in the places where the behavior typically occurs. Or you can have even a message on the mirror, computer screen or some other place where you will see on a regular basis. Also you can a family member or staff to use a specific expression to remind you to your destination.

5. Get help and support from someone. This is the kind of obvious. Each work is easier using. It works even better if you can make a partnership with someone, the goal shares.

6. Write daily affirmations. Writing you your phrase or sentence in the present tense (as if it were already happen), and write it ten times per day for 21 days. This process helps make a part of your subconscious mind, your goal that will remind you not only to the new behavior to practice, but it keeps you motivated and focused.

7. Reward yourself for progress in defined time intervals. Focus on your goal one day at a time, but treat yourself a small handle at one, three and six months. The rewards have still be big or expensive, and you should try to do something that is linked in any way with the aim. In this way offers both the incentive and the extra motivation.
No guarantee for success is the following. According to the habit, it takes several tries eventually make the change. But if you stick with it, you can do it. Good luck.

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