EXCLUSIVE FRIENDSHIPS

An excellent and gentle man of my acquaintance said, "Where fifty-one percent of voters believe cooeperation unlike the competition, the ideal community stops being a theory and become a fact."

Men must work together for the good of all is very beautiful, and I think the day will come that these things will be, but the simple process of fifty-one percent of voters in conversion of ballots for socialism will not bring it.

The question of the vote is simply the expression of feeling, and after the votes have been counted still remains work to be done. A man could vote right and act like a fool the rest of the year.

The Socialist who is full of fighting, the faction, bitterness, jealousy is creating an opposition to be held him and others like him in check. This opposition is, however, even in a very imperfect society is forced to protect against the dissolution and a condition worse. To take charge of monopolies and operate them for the sake of society is not enough, and not desirable any, so much time as the idea of rivalry abounds.

Insofar as it is higher in the minds of men, that fear and hatred of other men, and low socialism would be precisely the same distribution of place and power that we see now in politics.

Society can never be reconstructed to its individual members are rebuilt. Man must be born again. When fifty-one percent of voters to govern their own spirit and has made fifty and one percent of its current envy, jealousy, bitterness, hatred, fear and foolish pride of their hearts, then socialism is by hand and not until then.

The theme is completely too big to get rid of a paragraph, so I will only content I here with the mention of a thing, the danger to society unique friendship between man and woman, man and woman. No two persons of the same sex may be complemented, nor can long raise or benefit each other. Generally distorts the mental and spiritual estate. We have many acquaintances or none. When two men begin to "tell each other everything", are hiking of senility. There must be some well-defined reserve. We are told that in solid matter steel for example molecules never touch. Never surrender your individuality. We are all molecules of divinity, and you should not abandon our personality. Not be one, is no necessary man for you. His friend that if it keeps you distance a little. Friendship, as credit is highest when not in use.

I can understand how a strong man can have a high and constant affection for one thousand other men and call them by name, but how can consider one of these much higher than the other men and retain their mental balance, I don't know.

I am a man thing sufficiently close and he you clutch him as a drowning person and down both go. In a close friendship and exclusive men participate the weaknesses of others.

Shops and factories happens constantly men will have their friends. These men are related problems remain nothing perform backup sympathize with mutually, condole mutually.

Combine and stand by each other. Their friendship is unique, and others see it. Jealousy drag arouses suspicions, hate squatting around the corner, and these men are combined into mutual dislike for certain things and people. Encourage each other, and their sympathy dilutes sanity through recognition of their problems that are real men. Things get out of focus, and the sense of values is lost. Some think is an enemy you evolve him one.

Soon others participate and we have a clique. A clique is a friendship gone to seed.

A clique that develops into a faction and a faction a feud, and soon we have a mob is a blind, stupid, insane, crazy, ramps and roar of mass which has lost the rudder. A mob no individuals that everyone agreed, and independent thought is gone.

Feuding is based on nothing is a silly idea fuelled ablaze by a friend of silly error! And you can become a crowd.

Every man who has had nothing to do with the communal life has given the Clique is the process of disintegration Bacillus and the Clique always has his place of friendship of two same-sex people who say cruel things they say about other mutually exclusive "so that in his guard." Beware of unique friendship! The respect of all men and try to find the good in everyone. To attach only the sociable, the witty, wise, the brilliant, it is an error garrafal go between the plain, the stupid, education and exercise his own wit and wisdom. That is growing by giving have no favorites that you keep your friend both keeping away from it, as does it for following thereafter.

Revere him, but be natural and leave space to intervene. Be a divine molecule.

Be yourself and give a chance for himself to his friend. Thus benefits to you, and for the benefit of him can you benefit to yourself.

The best friendships are among those who can do without each other.

Of course, there have been cases of unique friendship reminded us as great examples of affection, but are so rare and exceptional serve to emphasise the fact that it is extremely prudent for men of ordinary power and intellect to exclude from his fellow men, men. A few men, perhaps, that are large enough as to have a place in history, could play the part of David of another Jonathan and still retain the goodwill of all, but most of us could engender bitterness and struggles.

And this beautiful dream of socialism, where each must work for the good of all, never come up to fifty and one percent of adults should abandon all exclusive friendships. Until that day will have cliques, designations which are cliques grown large factions, feuds and occasional mobs.

Not rely on one and nobody lean on you. The ideal society shall be composed by ideal people. Be a man and friend to everyone.

When the master warned his disciples to love their enemies, had in mind the truth a unique love is wrong. When love is monopolised dies. Grows by giving. Your enemy is one who misinterprets why should you not rise above the fog and see their error and I respect the good qualities that find it?