There is a law of human attraction?

"Attract of opposites" is a law of attraction, at least that electromagnetism relates. But there are laws on the attraction between two people? "In a world that is full of strangers" as a line in a popular song from the 1980s goes, there is a clear set of rules that allows two people to fall one to the other?

Is a point of attraction chemistry?

Maybe. According to the scientists, the attraction between the animals of the opposite sex is all about chemicals called pheromones. The effect of pheromones on the behavior of insects is the most studied to date. There has been, at least in some experiments, Pheromones are responsible for the communication between the same species and Ant Colony. The horrible smell released by skunks to ward off enemies is said to be a kind of pheromone. Some species of apes rub urine containing feet of potential mates pheromone to attract them. Some scientists believe that animals (usually females) such as insects and mammals these chemical signals sent to indicate that his species their genes are male different from theirs.The diversity of this gene is important in producing offspring with better opportunities to supervivencia.La perfume industry has capitalized on pheromones as a means to increase your sexual attractiveness to the opposite sex. Animals such as whales and musk deer were persecuted for these chemicals.

Recently, scientists are investigating the existence of human pheromones and its role in mate selection. There are many conflicting views in the field of biology, chemistry, genetics, and psychology. Most scientists who claim that they do not exist, or if do them not play a role in the sexual attraction between a man and a woman.But new research as the carried out by the University of Bern, Swiss researchers led by Klaus Wedekind slowly are doing these scientists to reconsider its position.His experiment involving women crawl different during the ovulation. men cotton shirts are found that women preferred the scent of the men that were genetically different t-shirts, but also share similarities with the mujer.Esto genes as in the case of insects and mammals, was for the characteristics of the best and healthy for their future children. But the researchers also cautioned preference for a masculine scent is affected by the period of ovulation in women, the food they eat men, perfumes and other products scented body and the use of birth control pills.

Does personality contained in sexual attraction?

Yes, but also makes it his perception of personality of a potential mate. According to a research conducted by Klohnen, E.C. & S. Luo in 2003 in the interpersonal attraction and personality, sense of self-security and the perception of less someone the person of its partner found strong determinants of the attraction in situations hypothetical. what this tells us We prefer a certain type of personality that is attracted to a person. But apart from the real person's personality, that only you can check on the close interaction of the time, their perception of your potential partner that is attracted to him, if the person of your affections really has that kind of personality or not. This could probably explain a commonly heard men and women in his failed relationships statement: "I thought that it was such a person".

Then, how you figure attraction in relations?

You probably heard that the attraction is a prelude, or a factor towards a relationship. Probably, at least in the beginning;but, the attraction alone cannot make a working relationship.It is the attraction that makes you notice someone of the opposite sex, but once you get to know the person, the attraction is only a test.Values shared dreams and passions, become the most important relationships in the long term.

Therefore should I stop trying to be attractive?

More than treat being physically attractive, works on all aspects of your health: physical, emotional, mental and spiritual.Physical attraction remains a forerunner.Remember, biology predisposes us to choose partner with genes more saludables.Cuando refers to their emotions, only this question himself: would you like to spend time with a person who feels insecure about of himself? probably not! there is wisdom in knowing yourself: who is you, beliefs, values and dreams. and not pretends to be someone you aren't. deceiving someone else for him making believe that shares the same values and beliefs will only make both decepciones.Cuando you are healthy in all aspects, attraction becomes a result and not a fin.Como mentioned in the investigation of the Klohnen and Luo, sensation of a person of self-security issues, perhaps even beyond of the attraction. but remember: these things itself and not to other persons only then you can leverage that truly offers its attractiveness as a person.